I have discovered from my experiences that when I have
made a decision that is less than exemplary, I am brought back to a place where
I am confronted with my earlier choice (for a fork-in-the-road moment), where I
am forced to recognize my mistake and make a different choice or decision.
These life’s lessons can be quite costly and sometimes take even up to several
decades to come full circle. What is your fork-in-the-road scenario that you
have been “banking-your-head-against-the-wall” with to pursue your own path
without realizing over the years that a different choice should be charted
instead of a specific longing for what is considered an absolute must from a
personal desire? Quite often we do not realize that when we are repeatedly
brought back to a certain point in our lives, why we are constantly thrust in
such a situation and we keep trying to remove the obstacles before us, until we
are allowed to have our most treasured option/objective/direction and we are forced
to live with our disastrous choices. The only things left at this point are to
“what-if” ourselves into turmoil to “fix” our bad decisions and we are forced
to either live with or somehow deal with (or manipulate) the consequences of
our bad decision-making, until we eventually learn from life’s teachable
lessons or become hardened and unteachable, (where most individuals end up).
What fork-in-the-road situation are you facing today? Does it relate to the
choice of a life’s partner/companion or a specific direction considered
essential, or a career path? ONLY YOU ARE CERTAIN OF THESE MOMENTS, BECAUSE
AFTER ALL NOT ALL INTERESTS AND DESIRES ARE OR SHOULD BE MADE KNOWN PUBLICLY
BECAUSE THE MANNER IN, WHICH DEVELOPMENTS OCCUR WILL ENABLE THE DISTINCTION TO
BE MADE BETWEEN BEING MANIPULATED OR PURSUING/REJECTING A GENUINE OR
SUGAR-COATED PATH MADE TO LOOK GENUINE, AS APPROPRIATE.
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